Anyone who knows me knows that I was never that person who does everything right and always chooses the stable. No! In the river of life, I went there not wet the trotters, I dove. I like to take risks and this is a characteristic of mine, without it, would have made me to be someone else. Without it, the life I had, I would not have had. This feature my made me know the best and worst of life I lived. And okay.
The problem is not to take risks, but knowing the risks you are running. And we women, because of the corporate interests of pharmaceutical companies rarely come to know the risks we are running with things that are already so usual as the contraceptive pill and the morning after pill.
The contraceptive I do not ever take millennia ago, when I discovered that my swelling and bad moods came of those daily doses of hormones that do not let me be who I really am. In us women, hormone is all. Ever stopped to think that consuming any daily dose that is the hormone has a great impact on your body and mind? For think. And talking to because experience in chemical I have.
Gratitude by feminists who have been there burning bras, everything's just right. But would the pill the best contraceptive option for women? It would be the pill a woman's invention for women Marisa? Or is it an idea of sexual freedom to the consequences of expense that affect ONLY the woman? Think about that when you have a little time. I have thought, I not take!
Sex without a condom is better? Wow, a thousand times! But if there is a method such as a condom that does not affect the body and mind of any party, why not opt for this? Because at the time of let's see, things are different. So when a man refuses to use, and you do not want children or serious consequences, try to think more about themselves.
My brief report: In the middle of 2015, saying goodbye to Ireland to come away to Brazil, I decided to enjoy my last days Bouas. And if there's one thing I like in this world, this thing called freedom, including sexual. Fucked yes no fault with how many wanted. All with condom, except for one.
I did not want to have sex without protection. But I know ... the guy wanted, and no protection was. The next day, obviously I take the pill the next day.The boy, paranoid, was already freaked out in the morning, thinking I would not, because then I came to know that a conversation he had with another girl on children had left him suspicious. (Hey, and why did not use a condom?).
Anyway ... I took the pill. But conheco my body: that day I felt that something was different in me. But I would only know even what it was about two weeks later when missing five days for my flight back to Brazil, did a test, and barely could hold to see the result: The pill had not worked. And if only for the fact that she did not have worked and I got pregnant, all right. The biggest drama would come later.
All that you do not want when you take a morning-after pill is pregnant, that's obvious. But I was not going to want to abort. My mind had to go "uhul am single and free in spite of poor and unemployed" to "Certo.Tenho to solve my life completely NOW" in just a few hours. People, we go through life making this transition, and I had to do in two minutes. I do not know where I got gallows.
I just tell the father of the child which was the situation, and that he needed to do nothing, etc. I would have alone etc and such child. You see, I had very few days to sort it all out, ran out of time, could hardly think, a thousand things going on at once. That situation, my friends! The boy, afff will not even say that freaked out. And suddenly, I found myself being questioned by his friends about my suitability, and the question whether that child was his. Hi?????
I looked at it and thought: How did did I get it? It was the CSI Criminal Investigation of pregnancy one night stand. Suddenly all neuroses and fear of foreigners had sprung up in that group, and I was now a stranger in the Old West that had deflowered a maiden. After many invitations to abortion with all expenses paid denied by me, and the declaration via a spokesman that the guy not be responsible for anything (something that I was ok since the beginning), I decided that I had not to go through what and prove suitability to anyone because I could have sex with 375 men, the child was still his. Bye galhere, ces is resolved to, and have a lot to worry about right now. In fact, gratitude to my friends and family. But the pain of those who are in a situation of this can only really be shared with the other party that generated the child.Then, the pain was mine alone. And seeing how the guy was emotionally fragile, still I tried to be strong for him, too.
